Sunday, December 18, 2011
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Definitions.....
Love is a tricky emotion. There are some things that feel like love but they are much too superficial to be the real thing. Real love takes time and doesn't happen over night. Here are three things that people often confuse for love.
Lust
Lust is the feeling that is often mistaken for love at first sight. Lust is an intense and sudden attraction to somebody you hardly know. It is mistaken for love because the attraction is so strong.
Obsession
Obsessions are often mistaken for love because people rationalize the crazy feelings they are having. They assume that it must be love if the other person is always on their mind. Obsession is similar to lust but it is much more misleading and destructive. While lust is often fleeting, fading as two people come to know each other better, obsession sticks around.
Rebounding
A rebound is a relationship that starts up very quickly after another relationship has ended. Rebounds are rarely based on love but are really a way of alleviating the loneliness people feel when a relationship ends.
Lust
Lust is the feeling that is often mistaken for love at first sight. Lust is an intense and sudden attraction to somebody you hardly know. It is mistaken for love because the attraction is so strong.
Obsession
Obsessions are often mistaken for love because people rationalize the crazy feelings they are having. They assume that it must be love if the other person is always on their mind. Obsession is similar to lust but it is much more misleading and destructive. While lust is often fleeting, fading as two people come to know each other better, obsession sticks around.
Rebounding
A rebound is a relationship that starts up very quickly after another relationship has ended. Rebounds are rarely based on love but are really a way of alleviating the loneliness people feel when a relationship ends.
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Forget . Forget. Forget
Forget the times he walked by,
Forget the times he made you cry,
Forget the times he spoke your name,
Remember now you are not the same.
Forget the times he held your hand,
Forget the sweet things if you can,
Forget the times & Don't pretend,
Remember now he's just like rest.
Forget the times he made you cry,
Forget the times he spoke your name,
Remember now you are not the same.
Forget the times he held your hand,
Forget the sweet things if you can,
Forget the times & Don't pretend,
Remember now he's just like rest.
Monday, October 24, 2011
Trip to cebu with MGB Trio's
At first it was only a plan. We didn't think that it would happen!!
It was my first time in Cebu and eventhough we only have limited time so happy that we get the chance to explore almost all part of Cebu!!.. I had so much fun.. Drink all night and groove to the music.. Yeah!!
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Smiley me!
You know why there's always a smile in my face?
Because life has taught me to always look the bright side of things and to remember that“EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON” and most of all when you feel that life is hitting you again and again.Struggle to follow, look forward the future. And always keep in mind, that life is not going to be fair and never has been, so whenever life gives you a hard time, you show her you are strong enough to move on and remember. Always keep your smile even if your heart is crying, because every bad thing has something good, it’s just a matter of perseverance.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Time to move on..
I need someone to prove to me that I’m worth it, really worth it to them. Maybe all I need is a person who can show me that everyone is not the same. Honestly, I thought you were that person but I was wrong. Is it too much to ask for someone to take a risk on me, to fight for me, to actually care enough to not let something go; the way I did for you? You never even thanked me. I acted the way I did because I cared. I didn’t realize it then, but I do now. I don’t do that for just anyone. So, call me crazy, but today.. today I realized that I can’t keep waiting for you. I’m moving on, I can’t stay in one place waiting. I can’t be around you anymore. I’m not over it, I don’t get over things fast, I never have, no matter how much I try and convince myself. I’ll see you around sometime. I keep thinking maybe somehow, something will click and everything will go back to the way it was in the beginning. Maybe we could go back to that, but too much has been said and done. So, maybe you’ll get one more chance from me, maybe you won’t.
Monday, August 8, 2011
My Treasure now it's gone.. =(
So depressed when I lost this phone.. This is my first ever phone.. Still hoping that they will return it to me..
I'm going to miss this one..
Thursday, August 4, 2011
There's that one guy
And no Matter how hard I try, im not good enough
No matter how much I like him, he won't like me
No matter how much I try to let go, I cant
I already lost you
But I never stopped loving you
I cant like anyone else because my heart belongs to you
I never thought I'd love someone this much
Its not fair I have to go through it
I miss everything
But I guess at some point
I got stronger
I got smarter
I got to experience love
You changed me,
Life was better with you
and now i am lost.
I'll keep hoping
But i cant hope forever
And no Matter how hard I try, im not good enough
No matter how much I like him, he won't like me
No matter how much I try to let go, I cant
I already lost you
But I never stopped loving you
I cant like anyone else because my heart belongs to you
I never thought I'd love someone this much
Its not fair I have to go through it
I miss everything
But I guess at some point
I got stronger
I got smarter
I got to experience love
You changed me,
Life was better with you
and now i am lost.
I'll keep hoping
But i cant hope forever
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Giving Your Heart Away.
It's odd isn't it, how the most amazing and comforting feeling of love can also be so terrifying and leave you in a state vulnerability to the person you entrust with your heart. And in this one moment when you decide to give your heart to someone, you give them this titanic power to dictate your emotions, to make you smile on days when you just want to cry, to be jealous when you try hard not to be, to make you breakdown in tears when they do you wrong, and to make the most scared you have ever been in life that they could steal your heart and walk out of your life, or even worst, they could shatter your heart in to a thousand pieces causing a pain like no other.
In the end, it all comes down to one thing: trusting another soul to protect and not hurt your heart even when they have the ability too. And some of you who are reading these very words might be thinking, whether of thinking back to past relationships or seeing it from other people or how you're feeling right now, how there must be a lot of untrustworthy people in this world to account for the countless broken hearts and tears caused by love.
But I think it's actually cause even though we feel like the person we love can do no wrong, we forget they are human and are bound to make mistakes no matter how careful they are not to. So when you're giving your heart with someone, just trust them to hold on to it as tight as they can. You're heart could get some bumps and bruises and it could get hurt, but no relationship is ever made to perfection and it's hard to not crack something so fragile. So have faith in love and in the person you love. Most importantly, trust yourself that the reason you're giving your heart away is because that one person was already deemed worth it to give your all too; so don't easily give up on them when they make a couple of mistakes. And if your heart does break, never be afraid to one day give your heart to someone else who will put the pieces of your heart back to get and protect it.
And also remember, even though it's scary giving your heart away, the other person is probably just scared giving theirs to you as well. So be courageous to give part of you to someone else, because believe me when I say love is worth the risk.
In the end, it all comes down to one thing: trusting another soul to protect and not hurt your heart even when they have the ability too. And some of you who are reading these very words might be thinking, whether of thinking back to past relationships or seeing it from other people or how you're feeling right now, how there must be a lot of untrustworthy people in this world to account for the countless broken hearts and tears caused by love.
But I think it's actually cause even though we feel like the person we love can do no wrong, we forget they are human and are bound to make mistakes no matter how careful they are not to. So when you're giving your heart with someone, just trust them to hold on to it as tight as they can. You're heart could get some bumps and bruises and it could get hurt, but no relationship is ever made to perfection and it's hard to not crack something so fragile. So have faith in love and in the person you love. Most importantly, trust yourself that the reason you're giving your heart away is because that one person was already deemed worth it to give your all too; so don't easily give up on them when they make a couple of mistakes. And if your heart does break, never be afraid to one day give your heart to someone else who will put the pieces of your heart back to get and protect it.
And also remember, even though it's scary giving your heart away, the other person is probably just scared giving theirs to you as well. So be courageous to give part of you to someone else, because believe me when I say love is worth the risk.
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Mask
This pain is so real, but no one can see it. I mask the pain with a smile, but why can't anyone see that this smile is not real? Don't they know that a smile is supposed to light up someones day, and show the world who you really are? People see me as a happy person, but why haven't they realized that the smile I give off isn't brightening anyone's day, not even my own? .....
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Change for the better...
As life goes on, we realize, everything changes.
People change. Friends change. Things change.
But change is good sometimes.
It makes you stronger as a person, shows you who your real friends are, and teaches you to not depend on others for happiness
People change. Friends change. Things change.
But change is good sometimes.
It makes you stronger as a person, shows you who your real friends are, and teaches you to not depend on others for happiness
Monday, June 27, 2011
Monday, June 13, 2011
Sunday, June 12, 2011
What happens in Movies doesn't happen in real life..
It’s easy to watch a movie and want to be like that couple that story unfold before your very eyes. To have that romance of ‘Romeo and Juliet’, an everlasting love like ‘The Notebook’, and that happily ever after of ‘Cinderella’. And just like in the movies, how could we not want to aspire to have that love story that somehow manages to have that perfect ending that makes you have that tingling feeling within your heart.
But the thing is, not every relationship is made to be on the silver screen, and not everything is as perfect as people think it should be. The problem with those movies that is that it always comes to an abrupt end, and you never really know what happens next. And in real life, it just doesn’t end with a happily ever after, but there are highs and lows.
So don’t expect to have that movie romance. But be ready to have something more than that. Be ready to make a complete untold story with the person you love. Don’t expect to have the perfect lines said to you, because we don’t have writers to tell us what to say. But expect words to be spoken from the heart and not from a script. And don’t expect the perfect actions, because we don’t have rehearsal time to make sure we do the right things. But expect spontaneous reaction due to how we feel about one another.
And as much as you want that love that you see just like in the movies, theres something out there so much better. It’s true love, the one that you can only have in real life.
But the thing is, not every relationship is made to be on the silver screen, and not everything is as perfect as people think it should be. The problem with those movies that is that it always comes to an abrupt end, and you never really know what happens next. And in real life, it just doesn’t end with a happily ever after, but there are highs and lows.
So don’t expect to have that movie romance. But be ready to have something more than that. Be ready to make a complete untold story with the person you love. Don’t expect to have the perfect lines said to you, because we don’t have writers to tell us what to say. But expect words to be spoken from the heart and not from a script. And don’t expect the perfect actions, because we don’t have rehearsal time to make sure we do the right things. But expect spontaneous reaction due to how we feel about one another.
And as much as you want that love that you see just like in the movies, theres something out there so much better. It’s true love, the one that you can only have in real life.
Yeah HOT CHOCO.. =)
While waiting for the arrival of my cousin from Manila via Cebu pacific I grab a hot choco to feed my tummy... So hungry that time.. whew.. =)
TODAY
Watching the clouds move away,
Feeling the sun shine on me.
Hearing the birds sing melodies,
The children playing in the streets.
Now that yesterday’s in the past,
I remember that sorrows will not last.
Today’s a brad new day,
And tomorrow’s far away.
I have my friends and families love,
And I know someone is up above.
I’m gonna live for today,
Doesn’t matter what others say.
I’m gonna dance in the rain,
And ignore the pasts’ pain.
I’m gonna feel the sun,
And forgive all I’ve done.
Because today’s a new day,
Ohh… it’s a new day today…
I’m gonna live for today ….
And you should do the same…
‘Cause tomorrow’s far away,
And yesterday’s the same.
But today… today’s a new day.
Watching the clouds move away,
Feeling the sun shine on me.
Hearing the birds sing melodies,
The children playing in the streets.
Now that yesterday’s in the past,
I remember that sorrows will not last.
Today’s a brad new day,
And tomorrow’s far away.
I have my friends and families love,
And I know someone is up above.
I’m gonna live for today,
Doesn’t matter what others say.
I’m gonna dance in the rain,
And ignore the pasts’ pain.
I’m gonna feel the sun,
And forgive all I’ve done.
Because today’s a new day,
Ohh… it’s a new day today…
I’m gonna live for today ….
And you should do the same…
‘Cause tomorrow’s far away,
And yesterday’s the same.
But today… today’s a new day.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Right Time.. =)
Sometimes in life you dont always get what you want.. You have to trust in God that the reasons are greater than you can think of right now and there is a better plan waiting for you. Its hard believe me because Im going through it right now. But I have to trust in HIM that He knows whats best for me and He and my angels are protecing my heart. That there is someone more amazing, and something better out there. I know it and feel God's love and protection. When you find that you have also inner peace.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Things That A Perfect Guy Would Do
1. Known how to make you smile when you are down.
2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respect your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
6. Play with your hair.
7. His hand would always find your hand.
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
9. Offer you plenty of massages.
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
11. Never run out of love.
12. Be funny, but know when to be serious.
13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it acutally hurts.
16. Smile a lot.
17. Plans a romantic date full of things he wouldn't normally do because he knows it means a lot to you.
18. Appreciate you.
19. Help others out.
20 Drive five hours just to see you for one.
21. Always gives you a kiss when you leave, even when his friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if he can't.
23. Have a creative sense of humor.
24. Stare at you.
25. Call for no reason.
2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respect your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
6. Play with your hair.
7. His hand would always find your hand.
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
9. Offer you plenty of massages.
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
11. Never run out of love.
12. Be funny, but know when to be serious.
13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it acutally hurts.
16. Smile a lot.
17. Plans a romantic date full of things he wouldn't normally do because he knows it means a lot to you.
18. Appreciate you.
19. Help others out.
20 Drive five hours just to see you for one.
21. Always gives you a kiss when you leave, even when his friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if he can't.
23. Have a creative sense of humor.
24. Stare at you.
25. Call for no reason.
Friday, April 22, 2011
My fault
My Fault.
Is it my fault im so blind
you told me you loved me
but things changed over time
its so sad i couldnt see.
You promised to always be there
you promised it was forever
you should have told me you never cared
i always believed to never give up, never!
But is it my fault i tried
is this the way we were bound
all you did was hide
never wanting to be found.
Playing you little game of hide and seek
it was all just a game
and you blame everything on me
i will never be the same.
So heres to you
now my lifes on hault
cuz all the stuff you put me through
thanks for making everything my fault.
Is it my fault im so blind
you told me you loved me
but things changed over time
its so sad i couldnt see.
You promised to always be there
you promised it was forever
you should have told me you never cared
i always believed to never give up, never!
But is it my fault i tried
is this the way we were bound
all you did was hide
never wanting to be found.
Playing you little game of hide and seek
it was all just a game
and you blame everything on me
i will never be the same.
So heres to you
now my lifes on hault
cuz all the stuff you put me through
thanks for making everything my fault.
Thursday, April 14, 2011
To a former friend
We were once so close, there wasn't a day that went by that we weren't together having fun. You can say we were friends, but to us it felt more like sisters. But now ask me what she is, and I'll say nothing, not even a friend. It's just really funny how you can go from friends forever, to two girls that just changed, or lost the friendship. Maybe it was me? Maybe it was you? Whatever it was, thank you for making me realize that people aren't who they say they are, and that friendships actually just don't matter.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Tired...
•I’m tired of losing friends.
•I’m tired of fighting.
•I’m tired of being lied to.
•I’m tired of drama.
•I’m tired of crying.
•I’m tired of never being happy.
•I’m tired of trying so hard, and have it be one sided.
•I’m tired of being bitter.
•I’m tired of being used.
•I’m tired of not sleeping.
•I’m tired of missing people.
•I’m tired of hiding my feelings.
•I’m tired of missing you.
•I’m tired of trying.
•I’m tired of being tired.
•I’m tired of fighting.
•I’m tired of being lied to.
•I’m tired of drama.
•I’m tired of crying.
•I’m tired of never being happy.
•I’m tired of trying so hard, and have it be one sided.
•I’m tired of being bitter.
•I’m tired of being used.
•I’m tired of not sleeping.
•I’m tired of missing people.
•I’m tired of hiding my feelings.
•I’m tired of missing you.
•I’m tired of trying.
•I’m tired of being tired.
Final
Hey Guys It's been a while since I updated you guys. It's already 11 pm and I'm not yet sleepy. It'a Friday I want to go out but my mind is saying NO.. I know that our path will cross in case I will go out. I really want to but hell what can I get if we will meet there. I hate competition especially from a friend. I don't want to compete why would I do that?.. Of all people.. Not with her..This is also one of the reason I can't sleep. A simple misunderstanding that ends a friendship which doesn't exist at the first place.I had enough. Maybe this serves as a sign that I must stop. Stop caring and hoping that things will work out just fine. It's final..
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Friday, March 11, 2011
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Creme Louisa...
Yeah I happened to celebrate my valentines day with that one.
We went to Gypsy with my friends. It was fun that we were not able notice the time and the number of bottles we drank. So happy that time then I realized being single is not bad at all...
I know God has a better plan for me ahead.. Happy Hearts Day Everyone...
We went to Gypsy with my friends. It was fun that we were not able notice the time and the number of bottles we drank. So happy that time then I realized being single is not bad at all...
I know God has a better plan for me ahead.. Happy Hearts Day Everyone...
Monday, February 14, 2011
So Sweet..
girl: happy valentines day!
*kisses bf*
Boy: whats today?
girl: valentines dayy... duh....
boy: is it really? I forgot....
*girl gives boy hurt look*
girl: how could you forget? I even got you a present.
*hands boy chocolates.*
boy: thx i will eat these later....
girl: I cannot believe you forgot.
*walks away hurt*
* boy runs after girl and pulls her into a hug*
boy: baby you really think I forgot today? I cannot believe you would think that. But I think what today is GOING to be more special then what it is....
girl: what are you talking bout?
*boy gets on one knee*
boy: I mean this..
* pulls out ring *
boy: baby will you marry me?
*kisses bf*
Boy: whats today?
girl: valentines dayy... duh....
boy: is it really? I forgot....
*girl gives boy hurt look*
girl: how could you forget? I even got you a present.
*hands boy chocolates.*
boy: thx i will eat these later....
girl: I cannot believe you forgot.
*walks away hurt*
* boy runs after girl and pulls her into a hug*
boy: baby you really think I forgot today? I cannot believe you would think that. But I think what today is GOING to be more special then what it is....
girl: what are you talking bout?
*boy gets on one knee*
boy: I mean this..
* pulls out ring *
boy: baby will you marry me?
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Friday, February 4, 2011
The real me..
I constantly wonder how my life looks in other people’s eyes. Do they think I have it easy? Do they think I have nothing going on for myself? Or are the fascinated with who I am? The thing is that no one will ever know my whole story. No one will ever know the things I’ve had to overcome. Not even my closest friends, not even my own family. The thing is that people are so quick to judge now a days. You only see a person from what they want and allow you to see. I always try to look as put together as if can and I guess that’s my way of hiding from the truth. It’s just that way, everyone will assume that everything in my life is okay, that I never go through anything. If only everyone knew how broken I am, and how I’m holding on for dear life on this one last strand that’s recently become very delicate. The truth is that no one really knows me. No one will ever know me and sometimes that scares me, because no one will ever know why I am the way I am.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Decisions I have to take,,
Making decisions is hard. Sometimes you have no idea what you want and other times you want to please everyone. You can't make everyone happy, so make decisions based on the kind of person you are and what you want in life, and the way the people in your life react to these decisions help you decide if you really want them in your life at all.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
DINAGSA Festival in CADIZ CITY 2011.. ;)
It was my first time to be in their festival.. It was awesome!
It was hell of a fun.. =)
Sunday, January 16, 2011
@ the Peak of don Salvador
This was taken during our immersion duty at Don Salvador..Nice place indeed.. =)
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Night out..
My first night out for 2011 was such a blast!!.. Plus it was my post birthday celebration..
Thanks guys...
Thanks guys...
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Party Party Party
It's my Birthday
Happy Birthday to me.
Thank you Lord for another yeah you added to my life..=)
Happy Birthday to me.
Thank you Lord for another yeah you added to my life..=)
Saturday, January 1, 2011
2011
More friends, More memories, More adventures, More love, More happiness, More laughter, More heart breaks, sadness and tears. . . But all I want Is another GoOd Year :)
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