It's Not You, It's Me

*Ways to Regain Your Confidence after Being Dumped

You just got out of a relationship, and you're not feeling too good about yourself. Well, this isn't the time to mope around and wallow in self-pity! It’s time to turn over a new leaf and rediscover your self-confidence. With these helpful tips and ideas, you’ll be back on your feet in no time. Don’t get overwhelmed by trying to fit all of our ideas into one day, but don’t be lazy about it either. Breaking up is hard to do, and regaining your confidence after being dumped requires some work on your part. Get on your feet and take one step at a time toward the new and improved you!

*Make of List of Things You Love About Yourself
Make a list of 30 (or 31, one for each day of the month) things you love about yourself and post it on your bathroom mirror for a month. Each day, choose one of those things and repeat it to yourself as a positive affirmation throughout the day. Make yourself sticky notes and post them in your car, at your desk, in your wallet, on the fridge, whatever it takes to make you think positive thoughts about yourself. Even if you feel silly doing it, give it a try for a few days so you can see the effects of positive affirmations for yourself.

*Learn Something New
Try something you have always wanted to do. You will feel energized and excited, two things that aren’t easy to achieve when you are heartbroken.

*Take Care of Yourself
Eat healthy food in between the junk food binging, drink lots of water even if you'd rather have vodka, and rehydrate your swollen eyes with damp chamomile tea bags before looking in the mirror. Pamper yourself with a day at the spa or get a really good massage.

*Journal
Breaking up is one of the best times to start journaling. That way, when you have a lapse of judgment during a crying fit and can’t remember why you split, you have your own words to remind you. The other advantage is that putting your thoughts down on paper actually allows you to “teach” yourself the lessons to be learned from this experience. Don’t get hung up on what you could’ve done or what you wish you would’ve done differently. Stick to the positives. What have you gained from this relationship and the break-up that you didn’t have before? How have you grown as a person? What relationship skills do you have now that you will be able to use in future relationships?

*Laugh A Lot
is true that laughter is the best medicine, so surround yourself with witty, entertaining people, watch funny movies, read an Ellen DeGeneres book, or get a comedy CD to listen to while you do things around the house.

*Hang Out with Some Guy Friends
Don’t go swearing off men just because one of them broke your heart. Men make good friends, and they are very good at making a woman feel beautiful and sexy, even if you have no interest in each other beyond friendship. They give a good balance to your support network, so keep them around.

*Make Yourself an Online Profile
You probably shouldn’t start dating right away, but it’s a fun thing to do anyway. You’ll have to talk about yourself, which is a good way to get in touch with your real self again. You’ll get the attention of other guys, which is a good boost to the ego, and you’ll have something to do when you have trouble sleeping.

LOving yourSeLF...

Loving yourself is not always an easy thing to do simply because we think we are not "good enough" or we don't "deserve it". The truth is that everyone deserves a chance of happiness and love. I know that putting your heart out there after you are hurt is not always an easy thing (I speak from experience); because all the insecurities tend to creep up and so we close up because we don't want to take a chance that might be the start of something special. All of this to say if an opportunity presents itself don't be afraid to take a chance because you never know what might come out of it. I'm so glad it did!!
I wish everyone the best of luck!!

when it rains it pours...=)

I am very thankful to God for all the blessing he had given me. I got a good news today. First my team was rank one but we were disqualified due to absences. Its ok.. At least we tried our best. We can make it anytime. Second my crush and I talk, but he had no idea that he is my crush..hehe. Last but not the least. I was one of the top 10 agents in our account in MP. Rank 5. I was shock I thought they were just joking.I can't believe it because I'm not really paying attention to the boxes. I'm more of the talking. So can u believe that? Maybe its just that when I was down my attention was in the boxes that's why maybe I've provisioned a lot of boxes. Some say when your not lucky in your love life,but in you career you will be...That's definitely true I think. What do you think?...hehe.

AwFuL day..

Yes it was an awful day for me. I haven't reach my quota. For the first time!! I almost cried because of it and also it was all SIK boxes, meaning high def boxes. Its not that i don't know how to provision but there are a lot of codes. I hate it. Oh well, tomorrow is another day. So i need to double my quota. Need to work harder. Now, that I'm inspired again because of you? Who might that be?...haha.. Ehem..

SExy

what is SEXY? Sexy is standing in the rain as you push him against the hood of your car, tearing his shirt, as u kiss with the intent never to stop. What is CUTE? Cute is young and inexperienced. Its holding hands in the car and kissing at the red lights. What is PASSION? Its knowing what you want and stopping at nothing until you get it. What is LOVE? It’s the balance of all these things in your mind, heart, body and soul.

Thinking of you..

Got nothing to do at this moment. Just arrived from MCDO with my friend Anne together with her hubby Kentot. Had a chitchat with them. Still something is missing. Can't help it. He's always on my mind. I don't know why. I thought after the Guimaras trip I would be okay still I'm not. While writing this blog I'm listening to the song Always be my baby by Mariah. I'm starting to like this one. It reminds me of him. When i was in MCDo my friend gave me this letter from someone in my past. If only I can loved him the way he loved me. If only....but I can't. I can't do it. The perfect guy to be with but the thing is I don't have feelings for him anymore. I know karma strikes back anytime. Now I'm experiencing it. I know what he feels right now cause that's what I'm starting to feel. I want to say sorry for all the stupid things I've done still He's there for me. For hurting him. I hope he will move on. I'm not the right girl for him.. I will never be.. I'm thankful that once in my life someone love me so much. You will always be a part of my life. I will never forget you. I Hope you will find the right one for you.

Memories in gumiaRas

Nice place indeed. The accommodation was nice. It was a great place for a group of people like us (team O.T.O.G) one team one goal. It was first time to experience the so called team building. The food was great and yummy. I enjoy all kinds of sea foods which is my favorite viand. Then also our favorite pastime which is singing. Before that we travel from bacolod to pulupandan.It was my first time actually, to go to Guimaras via pulupandan. Time of arrival was 9am. The beach was awesome. Its a very relaxing place. Especially for us. Who work everyday provisioning boxes.Speaking of provisioning boxes we are aiming for rank 1 this week!! Goodluck guys. My Memories with you in Guimaras will always remain in my heart. It was a one hell of an experience. The games was fun. We enjoy each moment we're there. Last, Beer time!! The day is incomplete without the Beer. Cheers for Team O.T.O.G One team one goal.

Miss The sun..

Oh well, Im excited tomorrow we will be having our first team building. This will be held @ Guimaras. Can't wait for it..It will surely release all the stressors and problems for sure. Im looking forward that this will going to be fun, even though my friend TiN will not come. I'm sad but i understand her situation. This will be my first and last team building. I'm going to file my resignation next month. Surely, I'm going to miss you guys. I need to finish my studies first. So that I will be able to pursue the thing that I wanted and to be able to have a career as a nurse someday. I will show to you that I can do this without you in my life. For i will be successful. You'l see.

HOw To Mend A Broken Heart?

They say it will take time to mend a broken heart. Some say in order to forget that person who hurt you is to find another one. When I watched our Pageant in faces of MP. Many were asked about love. How will they describe their first love and the other one how to mend a broken heart. Which my friend teased me, she told me that i should answer that question. How can i answer that when even me can't answer it. I just laugh it out and pretend that i don't mind. Sooner or later i might have the answer to that question. For now, its like I'm still left hanging.....

MY New Blog

Got my new blog site...excited...=)